Let’s talk about coordinating hot & sexy date night outfits. The best part for me when I was single and now that I am in a relationship is the process of putting together pieces that increase sexual tension. Call me what you want, but that is by far one of the best parts of dating for me. When I was single it was refreshing to know that for one night I didn’t have to sleep in a lingerie set alone and numb my loneliness away with Netflix. AND now that I am in a relationship, I have to constantly keep the mood from dwindling into “we have sex once every six months and I haven’t orgasmed in six years”.
Luckily, women embracing their sexuality is finally accepted and hawt. I see less instagram photos floating around with date night outfits that look like someone is going to lunch with the church choir, thank god. Especially since sexual tension is HUGE when going on dates. My personal theory is that I need two main pieces to the puzzle to make a relationship work. The first being that a man needs to be attracted to me sexually and the second part being he needs to be attracted to my personality. If there is no sexual chemistry and I just click with someone personality wise, that would just bump us down to just being friends (aka friend zone). By dressing in a sexual yet classy way on dates, I personally think it shows body confidence and sets the mood for a guy being able to see me in a more intimate way. This has worked for me when I was single and now that I am in a relationship. It’s this constant cycle of using sexual tension through my date night outfits to start and keep the flame alive.
So after that lengthy rant, let’s talk about some of my favorite date night outfits that I have worn on dates that men and myself seem to love equally…
So I was that total workout bunny that was meeting guys at the gym who wanted to go on hikes or meet for a workout. I swore I would never be that girl who constituted a workout w/ a guy as a date OR met my boyfriend at the gym. Those are both two promises I was never able to keep so here I am giving you all the details on my go-to items for a more active date.
FLEO BOOTY SHORTS
NIKE SPORT BRA
No turning boobs into flat pancakes. It pushes them up and holds them in.
NO baggy t-shirts. A tight crop top that shows off the curves is my preferred way to go.
CUTE & NEUTRAL THONGS.
I want no underwear lines or bright colored stripper thong showing through my shorts.
SEXY NIGHT OUT ON THE TOWN
If I were to choose one outfit to live in every single day, it would be a banging romper and pair of OTK boots. That is how hyped I am about this dynamic pair. This outfit can make any girl or body type a total sex magnet. It just screams sex appeal. If I was single right now, I would only be found wearing rompers and OTK boots on a daily basis like it was a f*cking religion.
FIND THAT MAGICAL ROMPER
You have to find that magical romper that makes your ass pop and body look slender.
Found my OTK boots for sale at TJ Maxx for around $60. If you really hunt online and in stores, you can find a good deal.
A simple touch that will sexify an outfit by TEN.
NOT YOUR MOTHER’S SUNDAY DRESS
For the occasions that I need to wear a dress and step it up a notch, I am in love with the Dream Closet Couture dress. I bought this dress featured in the photo above for around $50 and it fits perfectly. Even if you want inspo for date night outfits, you need to check out their site. BUY MY DRESS HERE.
The slit is FIRE and makes a guy want to run his hands all the way to…you get where I am going with this one.
HEELED SHOES ARE EVEN HAWTER.
Love cute short heels that aren’t a bitch to walk in and don’t make me turn into amazon women (I’m 5’8″).
I have a simple necklace that draws attention to the tits.
IT’S COLD BUT I STILL WANT TO LOOK HOT
The black jacket and shoes contrasted with light jeans makes a really sexy statement. I love buying all black everything just like any other basic bitch out there so I am sure this will please a lot of women.
BLANK NYC JACKET
Love this jacket and it comes in so many colors! I want to order three more.
BLACK TANK TOP OR BODYSUIT
Good low cut tank top or bodysuit with the jacket is the perfect combo.
Designer jeans that make your ass pop is a must.
STEVE MADDEN BOOTIES
I die for these booties. They are a bitch to walk in, but sexy.
That’s a wrap! If were being honest, I try to buy pieces that sexify my outfit regardless if I am going on a date or not. Except lately, I have resorted to not wearing makeup to work, wearing mix matched workout clothes, and looking like shrek five days a week. So when the weekend rolls around or date night pops up, it’s time to do something with myself for the sake of my relationship and my self-esteem.
Have fun, build up your date night outfits, & be safe. 😉